心理学报 ›› 2025, Vol. 57 ›› Issue (8): 1437-1451.doi: 10.3724/SP.J.1041.2025.1437 cstr: 32110.14.2025.1437
收稿日期:2024-04-07
发布日期:2025-05-22
出版日期:2025-08-25
通讯作者:
陆静怡, E-mail: jylu@psy.ecnu.edu.cn基金资助:Received:2024-04-07
Online:2025-05-22
Published:2025-08-25
摘要: 多样化观点有助于提高决策质量。然而, 当与他人意见相左时, 人常避免表达自己的观点。本研究(N = 2, 094)揭示一种全新的预测偏差: 提异议者高估异议接收者的消极反应。研究将被试随机分为提异议者和异议接收者, 提异议者预测自己提异议后接收者的反应, 接收者报告自己的实际反应。结果表明, 提异议者高估接收者的负性情绪、对提异议者的负性评价以及与提异议者的负性关系。研究通过测量被试的关注点揭示导致此错误预测的原因: 提异议者比接收者更多关注提异议伤害接收者自尊, 而非给接收者提供信息价值。提示提异议者更充分地考虑信息价值可以减轻这种错误预测。本研究拓展了人际交流中的预测偏差研究; 为鼓励谈话双方表达不同意见提供可行方法, 使人从多样化观点中获益。
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陈宇琦, 陆静怡. (2025). 提异议者高估异议接收者的消极反应. 心理学报, 57(8), 1437-1451.
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