ISSN 0439-755X
CN 11-1911/B
主办:中国心理学会
   中国科学院心理研究所
出版:科学出版社

心理学报 ›› 2026, Vol. 58 ›› Issue (2): 350-361.doi: 10.3724/SP.J.1041.2026.0350 cstr: 32110.14.2026.0350

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心相应, 爱相随: 夫妻相似性与婚姻满意度

苏微1, 方晓义2, 侯娟1   

  1. 1安徽大学哲学学院, 合肥 230039;
    2北京师范大学发展心理研究院, 北京 100875
  • 收稿日期:2024-11-18 发布日期:2025-12-03 出版日期:2026-02-25
  • 通讯作者: 侯娟, E-mail: daisyhoujuan@gmail.com
  • 基金资助:
    教育部人文社会科学青年项目(22YJC190007)

Hearts correspond, love follows: The relationship between couples’ similarity and marital satisfaction

SU Wei1, FANG Xiaoyi2, HOU Juan1   

  1. 1School of Philosophy, Anhui University, Hefei 230039, China;
    2Institute of Developmental Psychology, Beijing Normal University, Beijing 100875, China
  • Received:2024-11-18 Online:2025-12-03 Published:2026-02-25

摘要: 相似性是夫妻婚姻满意度的重要组成部分, 然而目前关于两者关系的研究存在矛盾的结论。那么夫妻究竟在哪些维度上相似? 相似性对婚姻满意度又有何影响呢? 本研究以638对中国夫妻为被试, 采用以夫妻为中心的方法(CCA), 通过轮廓水平相似性(PCS)和特质水平差异性(ADS)指标, 将主体效应、客体效应、相似性效应和差异性效应四者结合起来, 考察了不同婚姻阶段的个体、互动和原生家庭变量的相似性与婚姻满意度的关系。结果表明: (1)真实夫妻比随机配对夫妻更为相似; (2)相较于个体特质和互动方式, 夫妻在原生家庭维度上更加相似; (3)不同婚姻阶段的夫妻相似性对婚姻满意度的影响存在性别差异; (4)相似性虽然对婚姻满意度产生影响, 但是主体效应仍是婚姻满意度最大的预测源。

关键词: 婚姻满意度, 相似性, APIM, 以夫妻为中心, 家庭生命周期

Abstract: Similarity constitutes an essential component of marital satisfaction,yet current research has yielded inconsistent conclusions regarding the relationship between the two factors. First,previous studies have not adequately examined the length of marriage,resulting in a lack of dynamic adaptability in the research conclusions. Second,owing to the limitations of the research content,the results of previous studies are not comparable. Third,the similarity indices utilized in previous studies vary and therefore lack comparability. Finally,the majority of prior studies have adopted the variable-centered approach (VCA),which can be employed only to investigate the similarity of a couple on the basis of a single characteristic. Consequently,the aim of this study is to adopt the couple-centered approach (CCA) for couples at different marital stages and to integrate the actor effect,partner effect,similarity effect,and difference effect by combining profile-level similarity (PCS) and attribute-level difference (ADS) indicators to examine the relationship between the similarity of individual,interaction,and family of origin variables and marital satisfaction. We utilize dyadic data to explore the following questions: (1) Are real couples more similar than random couples? (2) In which dimension are real couples at different stages of marriage more similar? (3) How do these similarities affect marital satisfaction?
A total of 638 Chinese couples were recruited and divided into four marriage stages according to the family life cycle. The average ages of the husbands and wives were 48.83 years (SD = 13.42) and 47.40 years (SD = 13.36),respectively. After arriving at the laboratory,couples completed the questionnaire independently under the guidance of the interviewer. We first recorded the scores of the couples on all the items of each scale,then used RStudio to calculate the correlation coefficient between each column of these data (the correlation coefficient represents the PCS) and to calculate the absolute value of the score difference between the couple on each variable (the absolute difference score represents the ADS). Finally,we used an improved Actor-Partner Interdependence Model (APIM) incorporating ADS and PCS in Mplus to test the model.
The results indicate that first,real couples are more similar than random couples are,with the exception of family of origin variables. Second,compared with individual traits and interaction variables,couples are more similar in their family of origin. Third,regarding the similarity effect,husbands' marital satisfaction is most strongly influenced by similarities in their family of origin during the first marital stage,whereas in all other marital stages,similarities in personal traits have the greatest effect. For wives,personal trait similarity has the most significant influence during the first and fourth marital stages,whereas similarities in family of origin dominate the second and third marital stages. Finally,among the four effects,the actor effect has the strongest predictive power.
This study reveals the relationship between the similarity of diverse variables and marital satisfaction. It emphasizes that people should not only pay attention to the similarities between couples but also attach greater importance to the cultivation and display of their own personal traits for the sake of enhancing marital satisfaction. Overall,these findings hold crucial reference value and practical significance for our future research on the relevant mechanisms of marital satisfaction and marriage counseling.

Key words: marital satisfaction, similarity, APIM, couple-centered approach, family life cycle

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