ISSN 1671-3710
CN 11-4766/R
主办：中国科学院心理研究所
出版：科学出版社

心理科学进展 ›› 2014, Vol. 22 ›› Issue (1): 104-111.doi: 10.3724/SP.J.1042.2014.00104

• 研究前沿 • 上一篇    下一篇

“得寸进尺”还是“适可而止”：基于冒犯者角度对宽恕结果的讨论

张田;丁雪辰;翁晶;傅宏;薛艳   

  1. (1南京师范大学心理学院, 南京 210024) (2华东师范大学心理与认知科学学院, 上海 200062)
  • 收稿日期:2013-08-20 出版日期:2014-01-15 发布日期:2014-01-15
  • 通讯作者: 傅宏
  • 基金资助:

    江苏省普通高校研究生科研创新计划项目(编号：CXZZ13_0367); 江苏省高校自然科学研究项目(编号：13KJB180012)。

Does Forgiveness Increase or Reduce the Possibility of Further Offenses: The Discussion about the Consequences of Forgiveness Based on the Perspective of Offender

ZHANG Tian;DING Xuechen;WENG Jing;FU Hong;XUE Yan   

  1. (1 School of Psychology, Nanjing Normal University, Nanjing 210024, China) (2 School of Psychology and Cognitive Science, East China Normal University, Shanghai 200062, China)
  • Received:2013-08-20 Online:2014-01-15 Published:2014-01-15
  • Contact: FU Hong

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摘要：

宽恕的结果包含两个方面, 一是就被冒犯者而言的结果, 二是就冒犯者而言的结果。就被冒犯者而言, 宽恕的积极结果已被广泛证实, 但就冒犯者的行为而言, 以往研究的结果并不一致。有研究指出, 宽恕会导致进一步伤害的发生, 但也有研究指出, 宽恕能够降低进一步伤害的可能性。出现这种不一致结论的原因在于, 不同研究对于宽恕与和解的关系、冒犯者的内心体验和双方人际互动的认识不一致, 但进一步分析可以发现, 认为宽恕会避免进一步伤害的证据更充分, 因此宽恕仍然是处理人际伤害的有效方式。但无论是被冒犯者还是冒犯者, 在做出宽恕决定或是接受他人的宽恕时, 仍有一些方面要加以注意。

关键词: 宽恕, 结果, 避免伤害, 增加伤害

Abstract:

The consequences of forgiveness involve two aspects. The first is the consequence to the victims, and the secend is to the offenders. From the aspect of the victims, the positive role of forgiveness has been well confirmed, but from the aspect of the offenders, there are several inconsistencies among previous studies. Some studies showed that forgiveness would deter repeat offenses, while other studies revealed that forgiveness would encourage them. The conflicting of views on the relationship between forgiveness and reconciliation, on the inner experience of offenders, and on the interaction between the victims and offenders may contribute to the inconsistencies. However, further analysis shows that the viewpoint of deterring further offenses is more reasonable, and forgiveness is an effective way in dealing with interpersonal hurt. Finally, when the victims decide to forgive or the offenders accept the forgiveness, some issues are of note.

Key words: forgiveness, consequences, deter repeat offenses, encourage repeat offenses