个人信息的有意隐藏：藏秘及其后果和应对

doi:10.3724/SP.J.1042.2020.02114

摘要/Abstract

摘要：

藏秘在日常生活中十分常见, 但由于秘密的不公开性, 使得藏秘的研究发展缓慢。近年来学界主要关注藏秘的消极影响(如负担感及自我惩罚等), 而对藏秘的积极影响研究(如社会保护及亲社会谎言等)较少。学者们提出了秘密抑制模型、专注模型、持续性思维模型和共享现实理论等来解释消极影响的机制, 并发现通过吐露秘密、发挥创造性、训练情绪标记和自我意识等途径可以应对藏秘的消极影响。未来研究应对藏秘的概念做出更准确统一的界定, 并寻求更精准特定的测量与操纵方式, 探索藏秘的积极结果及影响机制, 深化藏秘的理论研究, 并推动藏秘研究在不同领域的应用。

关键词: 藏秘, 回忆操纵, 秘密专注模型, 共享现实理论, 吐露秘密

Abstract:

Secrecy is quite common in daily life. However, the non-public nature of secrecy remains a large obstacle to the development of secrecy research. The exiting literature mainly centered on the negative effects of secrecy such as the sense of burden and self-punishment, while the positive impacts of secrecy (e.g., social protection and prosocial lies) lack attention. Scholars have proposed several frameworks such as inhibition model of secrecy, preoccupation model of secrecy, perseverative thinking model and shared reality theory that can be used to explain the mechanism of secrecy’s negative effects. Furthermore, the present research findings demonstrated that individuals can mitigate the negative influence of secrecy by means of confiding secrets, exerting creativity, training emotional markers and self-awareness. Having recognized the critical role of secrecy, future research can be improved with a more accurate and consistent conceptualization as well as a precise measurement and manipulation. In addition, the empirical research could be intensified by focusing more on the positive impacts and the mechanism of secrecy and enhancing its application in different fields.

Key words: secrecy, recall manipulation, preoccupation model of secrecy, shared reality theory, confiding secrets

中图分类号:

B849:C91

段锦云, 孙涵彬, 孙佚思. (2020). 个人信息的有意隐藏：藏秘及其后果和应对. 心理科学进展 , 28(12), 2114-2124.

DUAN Jinyun, SUN Hanbin, SUN Yinsi. (2020). Intentional concealment of personal information: Secrecy and its consequences and coping. Advances in Psychological Science, 28(12), 2114-2124.

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